a mistake does not have to rule a person's entire

I do a lots of mistakes. In my opinion some mistakes we can avoid and ignore. for example talking about your friend when he is not there and that may cause a break in the friendship. I always do the same mistake, which is postpone the tasks and assignment, and that cost me a lot of efforts and time. i think the best mistake is the mistake which you learn from.  I think  many people judge others by their mistakes, but that is not the way, some people may they stick with their mistakes and actually they are nice people.